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How to banish negative thoughts - learn the tricks to thinking positively!
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Are you unemployed? Do you have a disability? Are you gay? Prejudice and stigma can have a devastating effect on your confidence. The media are often to blame for self-doubt and feelings of worthlessness. The size zero brigade and perfect images of movie icons and rock stars can leave anyone feeling inadequate.<br />
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Once learnt, you may repeat these messages endlessly to yourself until they become beliefs, particularly when life is difficult for one reason or another.<br />
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Have you been single for a while and tell yourself it's because you're unattractive? 'No-one likes me.' 'I'm stupid.' 'I'm a loser.' The more often you have these negative thoughts, the deeper they become ingrained, and harder to shake off. As soon as you make a mistake, at work, or even if you're simply cooking dinner, these thoughts are in your mind, and repeated over and over. You may think such things so often, so routinely, that you're probably not even aware you're doing it.<br />
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So when you're stressed, or ill or having a hard time at work, you usually find the negative thoughts crowd in and multiply, becoming harder than ever to ignore. <br />
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Whatever the reasons for your negative thinking, its time to get tough and take action. You can be in control of your own mind!<br />
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TAKE ACTION<br />
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Okay, the first thing to do is take a closer look at your negative thought patterns. Be realistic. Start on a good day when the sun is shining and you feel good about yourself; maybe ask a friend you can trust to help you.<br />
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Jot down the following questions and be honest with yourself:<br />
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Are these negative thoughts true?<br />
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Would a decent person normally say these things to someone else? If not, then how come you're saying them to yourself?<br />
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Are there any advantages in thinking these faults? Does it do me any good? If not, why do I keep thinking them?<br />
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Ask your friend why they think you may be having these thoughts. Is there any truth in them? You will probably find a close friend who knows you well will be able to look at things in a different light and help you see your life more realistically.<br />
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REVERSE THE TREND<br />
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It's not possible to think two thoughts at the same time. So train yourself to think positive thoughts. Memorise repetitive phrases that you can repeat to yourself when negativity threatens to get the better of you. Write something good about yourself on a piece of paper and put it in your pocket. Take it out through the day and read it, and believe it!<br />
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Focus on your attributes:<br />
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'I am a decent honest person.'<br />
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'I have friends who care about me.'<br />
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'I have a talent for making people laugh/looking after animals/singing/gardening.'<br />
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Use energetic, positive words – happy, caring, loving, warm, adventurous.<br />
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Ban negative words from your inner vocabulary! Do not use bored, scared, angry, upset, can't, worried. Always use the present tense and be positive.<br />
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If you are in a situation where you feel unsure or nervous, for example a job interview, don't tell yourself 'I haven't got a chance in hell of getting this job.' Instead use 'I am confident and happy, it doesn't matter if I don't get this job but I will try my best.'<br />
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Be definite and pro-active. Don't say 'I am going to try not to worry anymore.' Say instead 'I will focus on the positive things in my life.'<br />
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WRITE IT DOWN<br /> <br />
Try this simple but very effective exercise.<br />
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Take a piece of paper and make two columns, one titled 'Negative Thoughts', the other 'Positive Thoughts.'<br />
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Write down all the negative thoughts that plague you when you are feeling down, ill or tired. In the next column think of a positive thought that directly contradicts the negative e.g:<br />
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NEGATIVE >>> POSITIVE <br />
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I'm not clever enough > I am intelligent and intuitive <br />
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Everything I do goes wrong > I have achieved many things <br /> successfully<br />
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I don't deserve happiness > I deserve to be happy and healthy<br />
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I'm worthless > I'm a special person valued by<br /> lots of people<br />
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I hate myself > There are lots of really good<br /> things about me that I can be proud of <br />
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BELIEVE IT!<br />
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It may take a while, maybe a month or two, to kick your old habits and train yourself to think positively. Don't give up!<br />
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Try repeating your new positive thought patterns over and over when you're calm and relaxed; in the bath, or just before you fall asleep. Be persistent and repetitive and your new positive way of looking at yourself should become second nature. Soon you will find that you are in control of your own thinking and the negative thoughts will be buried beneath your new way of thinking. And if the worst happens and the old ways come back, repeat these activities as often as you need to. <br />
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You are a good person and it's time to start believing it!<br />
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Be happy!</p>
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<br>Another Western writer expressed his view of Buddhism in these words: "Buddhism is a plan for living in such a way as to derive highest benefit from life. It is a religion of wisdom where knowledge and intelligence predominate. The Buddha did not preach to win converts but to enlighten listeners."
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<br>Anatole France, a famous French poet and novelist of the 19th century, made this appreciative reference to the Buddha: "It seemed that the kindly aesthetic, eternally young, seated cross-legged on the lotus of purity with his right hand raised in admonition, answered in these two words: If you wish to escape from suffering, from fear, practise wisdom and compassion."
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<br>This beauty of Buddhism is even more stressed by Hermann Keyserling, a German philosopher, who says: "I know nothing more grand in the world than the figure of Buddha. This grandest creation of art, the figure of the Buddha, surely could not have been produced by a pessimistic religion."
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<br>Now, the last and longest quotations here will be those of Nehru, the late Prime Minister of India. As a leader of Hindu India, his impression of Buddhism is particularly interesting. In his well-known book, The Discovery of India, he says:
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<br>"The Buddha story attracted me even in early boyhood, and I was drawn to the young Siddhartha who, after many inner struggles and pain and torment, was to develop into the Buddha. Edwin Arnold's 'Light of Asia' became one of my favourite books. In later years when I travelled about a great deal in my province, I liked to visit the many places connected with the Buddha legend, sometimes making a detour for the purpose."
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<br>"Was Buddhism passive and pessimistic? Its interpreters may say so ... But when I think of the Buddha no such feeling arises in me ..."
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<br>"Seated on the lotus flower, calm and impassive, above passion and desire, beyond the storm and strife of this world, so far away he seems, out of reach, unattainable. Yet again we look and behind those still, unmoving features there is a passion and an emotion, strange and more powerful than the passions and emotions we have known. His eyes are closed, but some power of the spirit looks out of them and a vital energy fills the frame. The ages roll by and Buddha seems not so far away after all; his voice whispers in our ears and tells us not to run away from the struggle, but, calm-eyed, to face it, and to see in life ever greater opportunities for growth and advancement."
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<br>"His message was one of universal benevolence, of love for all. It was an ideal of righteousness and self-discipline. Buddha relies on reason and logic and experience and asks people to seek the truth in their own minds. It is remarkable how near this philosophy of the Buddha brings us to some of the concepts of modern physics and modern philosophic thought. Buddha's method was one of psychological analysis and, again, it is surprising to find how deep was his insight into this latest of modern science."
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<br>Elsewhere he says:
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<br>"It is essentially through the message of the Buddha that the individual, national and international problems of today can be looked at from the right perspective."
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